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You can't easily find a spouse, but everything everywhere is "sexy" all the time. I'm becoming increasingly convinced the whole category is going away, that humans will not have sex for much longer. Think I'm crazy? Perhaps, but as radical as it sounds, castration might not even be a negative for health, in the present time. Quite the contrary, even! Here's an article on the subject (followed by a study from Harvard that might suggest that - of course, without castration - not wasting time and energy when you're single leads to cancer). Bottom line: you're not alive for as many years, and you waste a sizeable portion of those years (at least, in this social environment; the Amish, for example, are not wasting their time). Probably, especially if something doesn't change, sex as a category may be on the way out sooner than many people anticipate; it's thoroughly counterproductive. It introduces so many vulnerabilities to the human race; it makes interactions more difficult to discern and people more difficult to trust and, quite frankly, it's wasteful. Extremely inefficient. If you just want kids and don't want a husband, there's artificial insemination. If you just want bliss? There's lots of that in life, and drugs will become better, less dangerous. The bliss itself is just a chemical reaction. It's amazing what "liberation" does to people. This whole culture is a disaster; of course, robotics are coming anyway. As we become robotic, the robots will be able to self replicate, etc., without distractions, wasted time, etc. And we can still use chemicals of some sort to motivate our behavior (but, again, our own human energy will be less important, will it not? Won't the robot take care of a lot of that?) It's almost certainly all going away very quickly. Why these hooligans are not into doing it well - doing regular marriage - up until we have robots... Heaven damn them. I hate them.
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Men Can Live 20 Years Longer... But There's A High Cost

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Men, what would you be willing to give up to live a couple decades longer? Think carefully before you answer. Research has shown that men who are castrated may have significantly longer lifespans. Here's what we know.

Photo Credit: Colby Stopa via flickr | CC BY 2.0
Behavior or Biology?
You've probably heard about the gender gap in human life expectancy. According to the United Nations Department of Economic and Social Affairs, females worldwide live an average of 73.5 years, while males average 68.5. Those figures can vary pretty drastically (life expectancy for both men and women is still less than 55 years throughout much of sub-Saharan Africa), but the last several decades have seen large gains in life expectancy across the globe, for men and women, alike. Still, the gender gap persists*. "Wherever they live in the world," reported the World Health Organization in 2014, "women live longer than men."

Article preview thumbnail
A world map of average life expectancy by country. How does your nation rank?
Here now to provide a some perspective on the matter of mortality is a variegated patchwork…

Read on io9.​com
Why the disparity? It's tempting to pin the blame on social and behavioral differences. Consider, for example, that 82% of people killed by lightning are male. Now, is there something about the male biology that makes it more attractive to bolts of electricity, or are men just more likely to engage in behavior that'll get them zapped? The National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration, for its part, thinks it's the latter:

Article preview thumbnail
New statistics on lightning deaths in the U.S. reveal weird patterns
A new study published today by the National Weather Service is loaded with statistics on lightning…

Read on io9.​com
Possible explanations for this finding are that males are unaware of all the dangers associated with lightning, are more likely to be in vulnerable situations, are unwilling to be inconvenienced by the threat of lightning, are in situations that make it difficult to get to a safe place in a timely manner, don't react quickly to the lightning threat, or any combination of these explanations.

This pattern of male fatalities exceeding female ones holds, elsewhere. The Insurance Institute for Highway Safety reports that "more men than women die each year in motor vehicle crashes," with the former logging more miles and engaging in riskier driving practices than the latter; and the U.S. Department of Labor reports that, in 2013, male fatalities accounted for a staggering 93% of occupational deaths in the United States.

Castration's Questionable Life-Prolonging Effects
What none of these demographics point to is a clear biological basis for men's shorter lifespans. In the late sixties, however, results from a study conducted by researchers James Hamilton and Gordon Mestler seemed to provide exactly that. The Straight Dope's Cecil Adams provides a tidy summary of their investigation, the findings of which are published in 1969 issue of The Journal of Gerontology:

[Hamilton and Mestler] compared the lifespans of 297 castrated inmates at a Kansas institution for the mentally retarded with those of 735 intact males at the same facility. The castrated males had gone under the knife at ages from 8 to 59 years old, with the average age ranging from 12 (!) in 1898 to 30 in 1923. They didn't vary markedly from intact inmates in terms of IQ, type of mental disability, and so on, suggesting there had been no firm criteria for the operation other than possibly your getting on the hospital staff's nerves — too bad if you were an inmate but lucky for science, since except for castration the two groups were indistinguishable.

Result: the castrated inmates on average lived 13.6 years longer than the intact ones (55.7 vs 69.3 years). What's more, the earlier you were castrated, the longer you lived.

The findings suggested that one side-effect of testosterone may be an abbreviated lifespan, and that curbing the sex hormone's release could help males live longer. Hamilton and Mestler hypothesized that testosterone's ill-effects, and the life-prolonging benefits of castration, applied to males of all species, due in large part to a wideheld belief that castrated animals live longer than their intact counterparts. But the evidence for these assumptions is rather ambiguous.

While there seems to be some consensus that the females of most species live longer than males, a 2010 evaluation of the risks and benefits of neutering dogs and cats pokes holes in the idea that sex hormones are to blame, by reporting that "no firm conclusions can be drawn about the effect of neutering on longevity." One notable exception is a study that found neutering to prolong the lives of Rottweilers, but the fact that neutered females lived longer than their male counterparts confounds things, by suggesting that sex hormones broadly – as opposed to testosterone, specifically – may be responsible for shortened lifespans.

The upshot? It's complicated! A recent investigation into lifespan and aging in Drosophila simulans (an important model organism in speciation research that is closely related to the ubiquitous D. melanogaster) highlights how confusing things can get, when considering the effects of natural and sexual selection – both of which depend on behavioral and social factors – on the evolution of aging and lifespan. Taken together, the authors write, sex-specific effects of sexual selection (i.e. how successful members of a species are at securing and reproducing with mates) and natural selection "may help explain the diverse patterns of aging seen in nature, but complicate predictions about how aging and life span evolve across the sexes."

More Contradicting Evidence
The most recent study I could find on the subject of human castration's longevity boosting effects in humans was "The Lifespan of Korean Eunuchs," a straightforwardly titled investigation performed by Korean scientists Kyung-Jin Min, Cheol0-Koo Lee, and Han-Nam Park, and published in a 2012 issue of Current Biology.

Min and his colleagues studied the genealogical records of 81 Korean eunuchs born between 1556 and 1861. (Historically, Korean royalty relied on eunuchs to guard the gates, manage food, etc., and were the only men outside the royal family permitted to spend the night inside the palace walls.) The average lifespan of eunuchs was found to be 70 years of age (the records also made note of three centenarian eunuchs, including a 109-year-old), 14.4- to 19.1-years longer than the lifespan of non-castrated men of comparable social standing.

Min told the BBC at the time: "We also thought that different living circumstances or lifestyles of eunuchs can be attributed to the lifespan difference... However, except for a few eunuchs, most lived outside the palace and spent time inside the palace only when they were on duty." Instead, the researchers conclude their study "provides compelling evidence that male sex hormone reduces male lifespan."

Evidence is not always proof, however, and other experts emphasize this fact. "It may not have anything to do with being eunuchs," said S. Jay Olshansky, a professor of public health at the University of Illinois in Chicago who studies longevity, at the time. Similarly, a small, unpublished study of 25 documented castrati born between 1610 and 1762 seems to contradict the Korean eunuch study. Researcher J.S. Jenkins found the average lifespan of the castrated group to be similar to that of 25 intact male singers born during a similar period. "The relative longevity for this period may be explained by the fact that both groups lived fairly cosseted lives," Jenkins writes.

All that being said: If you're a man, and you're considering taking drastic measures to extend your lifespan, you should know that everyone seems to agree that castration is not the answer. "I would not recommend becoming a eunuch," says Dr. L. Stephen Coles, a co-founder of the Los Angeles Gerontology Research Group. Taking drugs to reduce your sex hormones is also a bad idea, he says, pushing the quality v. quantity of life angle, adding that this could have undesirable side-effects, e.g. severely diminishing one's sex drive.

Min and the other authors of the Korean eunuch study, agree. There are less drastic ways to extend one's life. Smoke less. Eat better. Exercise more. You know, the usual. "For better health and longevity," they write, "stay away from stresses and learn what you can from women."

You can start by staying inside during lightning storms.

*It is true that, in many countries (the U.S. included), that gap is narrowing; and there are, of course, some striking geopolitical outliers (in Japan, the average male life expectancy of 85 years exceeds the average female life expectancies of all but eleven countries) – but on a country-by-country basis, women still dominate the long game.

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Men Can Live 20 Years Longer... But There's A High Cost

Robbie Gonzalez
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Men, what would you be willing to give up to live a couple decades longer? Think carefully before you answer. Research has shown that men who are castrated may have significantly longer lifespans. Here's what we know.

Photo Credit: Colby Stopa via flickr | CC BY 2.0
Behavior or Biology?
You've probably heard about the gender gap in human life expectancy. According to the United Nations Department of Economic and Social Affairs, females worldwide live an average of 73.5 years, while males average 68.5. Those figures can vary pretty drastically (life expectancy for both men and women is still less than 55 years throughout much of sub-Saharan Africa), but the last several decades have seen large gains in life expectancy across the globe, for men and women, alike. Still, the gender gap persists*. "Wherever they live in the world," reported the World Health Organization in 2014, "women live longer than men."

Article preview thumbnail
A world map of average life expectancy by country. How does your nation rank?
Here now to provide a some perspective on the matter of mortality is a variegated patchwork…

Read on io9.​com
Why the disparity? It's tempting to pin the blame on social and behavioral differences. Consider, for example, that 82% of people killed by lightning are male. Now, is there something about the male biology that makes it more attractive to bolts of electricity, or are men just more likely to engage in behavior that'll get them zapped? The National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration, for its part, thinks it's the latter:

Article preview thumbnail
New statistics on lightning deaths in the U.S. reveal weird patterns
A new study published today by the National Weather Service is loaded with statistics on lightning…

Read on io9.​com
Possible explanations for this finding are that males are unaware of all the dangers associated with lightning, are more likely to be in vulnerable situations, are unwilling to be inconvenienced by the threat of lightning, are in situations that make it difficult to get to a safe place in a timely manner, don't react quickly to the lightning threat, or any combination of these explanations.

This pattern of male fatalities exceeding female ones holds, elsewhere. The Insurance Institute for Highway Safety reports that "more men than women die each year in motor vehicle crashes," with the former logging more miles and engaging in riskier driving practices than the latter; and the U.S. Department of Labor reports that, in 2013, male fatalities accounted for a staggering 93% of occupational deaths in the United States.

Castration's Questionable Life-Prolonging Effects
What none of these demographics point to is a clear biological basis for men's shorter lifespans. In the late sixties, however, results from a study conducted by researchers James Hamilton and Gordon Mestler seemed to provide exactly that. The Straight Dope's Cecil Adams provides a tidy summary of their investigation, the findings of which are published in 1969 issue of The Journal of Gerontology:

[Hamilton and Mestler] compared the lifespans of 297 castrated inmates at a Kansas institution for the mentally retarded with those of 735 intact males at the same facility. The castrated males had gone under the knife at ages from 8 to 59 years old, with the average age ranging from 12 (!) in 1898 to 30 in 1923. They didn't vary markedly from intact inmates in terms of IQ, type of mental disability, and so on, suggesting there had been no firm criteria for the operation other than possibly your getting on the hospital staff's nerves — too bad if you were an inmate but lucky for science, since except for castration the two groups were indistinguishable.

Result: the castrated inmates on average lived 13.6 years longer than the intact ones (55.7 vs 69.3 years). What's more, the earlier you were castrated, the longer you lived.

The findings suggested that one side-effect of testosterone may be an abbreviated lifespan, and that curbing the sex hormone's release could help males live longer. Hamilton and Mestler hypothesized that testosterone's ill-effects, and the life-prolonging benefits of castration, applied to males of all species, due in large part to a wideheld belief that castrated animals live longer than their intact counterparts. But the evidence for these assumptions is rather ambiguous.

While there seems to be some consensus that the females of most species live longer than males, a 2010 evaluation of the risks and benefits of neutering dogs and cats pokes holes in the idea that sex hormones are to blame, by reporting that "no firm conclusions can be drawn about the effect of neutering on longevity." One notable exception is a study that found neutering to prolong the lives of Rottweilers, but the fact that neutered females lived longer than their male counterparts confounds things, by suggesting that sex hormones broadly – as opposed to testosterone, specifically – may be responsible for shortened lifespans.

The upshot? It's complicated! A recent investigation into lifespan and aging in Drosophila simulans (an important model organism in speciation research that is closely related to the ubiquitous D. melanogaster) highlights how confusing things can get, when considering the effects of natural and sexual selection – both of which depend on behavioral and social factors – on the evolution of aging and lifespan. Taken together, the authors write, sex-specific effects of sexual selection (i.e. how successful members of a species are at securing and reproducing with mates) and natural selection "may help explain the diverse patterns of aging seen in nature, but complicate predictions about how aging and life span evolve across the sexes."

More Contradicting Evidence
The most recent study I could find on the subject of human castration's longevity boosting effects in humans was "The Lifespan of Korean Eunuchs," a straightforwardly titled investigation performed by Korean scientists Kyung-Jin Min, Cheol0-Koo Lee, and Han-Nam Park, and published in a 2012 issue of Current Biology.

Min and his colleagues studied the genealogical records of 81 Korean eunuchs born between 1556 and 1861. (Historically, Korean royalty relied on eunuchs to guard the gates, manage food, etc., and were the only men outside the royal family permitted to spend the night inside the palace walls.) The average lifespan of eunuchs was found to be 70 years of age (the records also made note of three centenarian eunuchs, including a 109-year-old), 14.4- to 19.1-years longer than the lifespan of non-castrated men of comparable social standing.

Min told the BBC at the time: "We also thought that different living circumstances or lifestyles of eunuchs can be attributed to the lifespan difference... However, except for a few eunuchs, most lived outside the palace and spent time inside the palace only when they were on duty." Instead, the researchers conclude their study "provides compelling evidence that male sex hormone reduces male lifespan."

Evidence is not always proof, however, and other experts emphasize this fact. "It may not have anything to do with being eunuchs," said S. Jay Olshansky, a professor of public health at the University of Illinois in Chicago who studies longevity, at the time. Similarly, a small, unpublished study of 25 documented castrati born between 1610 and 1762 seems to contradict the Korean eunuch study. Researcher J.S. Jenkins found the average lifespan of the castrated group to be similar to that of 25 intact male singers born during a similar period. "The relative longevity for this period may be explained by the fact that both groups lived fairly cosseted lives," Jenkins writes.

All that being said: If you're a man, and you're considering taking drastic measures to extend your lifespan, you should know that everyone seems to agree that castration is not the answer. "I would not recommend becoming a eunuch," says Dr. L. Stephen Coles, a co-founder of the Los Angeles Gerontology Research Group. Taking drugs to reduce your sex hormones is also a bad idea, he says, pushing the quality v. quantity of life angle, adding that this could have undesirable side-effects, e.g. severely diminishing one's sex drive.

Min and the other authors of the Korean eunuch study, agree. There are less drastic ways to extend one's life. Smoke less. Eat better. Exercise more. You know, the usual. "For better health and longevity," they write, "stay away from stresses and learn what you can from women."

You can start by staying inside during lightning storms.

*It is true that, in many countries (the U.S. included), that gap is narrowing; and there are, of course, some striking geopolitical outliers (in Japan, the average male life expectancy of 85 years exceeds the average female life expectancies of all but eleven countries) – but on a country-by-country basis, women still dominate the long game.

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Does frequent ejaculation help ward off prostate cancer?

Marc Garnick, M.D., Editor in Chief of Harvard Medical School’s Annual Report on Prostate Diseases, says:

Two relatively large studies of this question, reported in 2003 and 2004, yielded good news for sexually active men: high ejaculation frequency seemed to protect against prostate cancer.

As part of Harvard’s Health Professionals Follow-up Study, 29,342 men between the ages of 46 and 81 reported their average number of ejaculations per month in young adulthood (ages 20–29), in mid-life (ages 40–49), and in the most recent year. Ejaculations included sexual intercourse, nocturnal emissions, and masturbation. Study participants also provided comprehensive health and lifestyle data every two years from 1992 to 2000. The scientists found that men who ejaculated 21 or more times a month enjoyed a 33% lower risk of prostate cancer compared with men who reported four to seven ejaculations a month throughout their lifetimes.

An Australian study of 2,338 men came to a similar conclusion. In all, men who averaged 4.6 to seven ejaculations a week were 36% less likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer before the age of 70 than men who ejaculated less than 2.3 times a week on average. The study found no connection between prostate cancer and the number of sex partners. (An earlier study, however, found that men who had sex with 30 or more women were two to three times more likely to develop prostate cancer than men with only one partner.)

Further study is needed to investigate possible protective mechanisms. In theory, emptying the prostate of potentially irritating or harmful substances might be one such mechanism. Regardless of the reason why, take comfort in the fact that ejaculation is not only pleasurable, but also may convey health benefits.

SOURCES: Leitzmann MF, Platz EA, Stampfer MJ, et al. Ejaculation Frequency and Subsequent Risk of Prostate Cancer. Journal of the American Medical Association 2004;291:1578–86. PMID: 15069045.

Giles GG, Severi G, English ER, et al. Sexual Factors and Prostate Cancer. BJU International 2003;92:211–16. PMID: 12887469.

Originally published April 2009; last reviewed February 24, 2011.

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Jonathan Cooper
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"Dollar" used to = "silver" (in particular quantity and purity). So also, marriage used to mean life long - and it was such a precious thing, and it made your life better. I've written an enormous amount about the traditional, positive correlations with marriage. Those may have vanished for my generation. Why? Marriage becomes BAD if it doesn't mean anything - just like dollar bills go bad if they don't mean anything. (Zero opposition to contraceptives, by the way. None. Zilch. Nada. Totally against lack of solid foundations for long term decision making. That's the problem; to Hell with you obsessed over having children people. The problem is the social environment. Why bring kids into this mess?)

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A new study, soon to be published in the Journal of Women’s Health, provides fresh evidence that people who stay single instead of getting married, or who get divorced instead of staying married, are especially likely to be healthy.

Marriage researchers have been insisting for decades that married people are healthier, and that they are healthier because they are married. If that were true, then people who get married should become healthier than they were when they were single, and people who get divorced should become less healthy than they were when they were married. Individual social scientists have sometimes suggested that the evidence is far from definitive (for example, in Singled Out, and later in Marriage vs. Single Life: How Science and the Media Got It So Wrong), but their objections have done little to put a dent in the prevailing assumptions. The belief that marriage is protective of health goes mostly unquestioned.

In the new study, more than 79,000 women were studied over a three-year period as they stayed unmarried; got married or entered a relationship that was like marriage; stayed married; or got divorced or separated. These women were between the ages of 50 and 79, recruited from 40 places across the U.S. They were all post-menopausal. Women who had become widowed were not included.

Many studies of health rely on participants’ own reports of how healthy they are. In this study, actual physical measurements of blood pressure, waist circumference, and BMI (body mass index) were taken by trained professionals. Those measures were supplemented by participants’ reports of their drinking, smoking, exercising, and eating habits.

Here’s what changed when unmarried women (whether divorced, separated, or always single) got married:

After they got married, their BMI (body mass index) increased.
After they got married, they drank more.
After they got married, their systolic blood pressure increased.
Diastolic blood pressure decreased over the three-year period for those who stayed single and those who married, but it decreased less in those who got married.
Here’s what changed when married women got divorced or separated, compared to the women who stayed married:

BMI (body mass index) decreased for the women who got divorced.
Waist size decreased for the women who got divorced.
Diastolic blood pressure decreased more for the women who got divorced. (The results for systolic blood pressure showed the same pattern, but were not statistically significant.)
Improvements in healthy eating were greater for the women who got divorced.
Physical activity increased for the women who got divorced.
Among those who were not smoking at the beginning of the study, women who got divorced were more likely to start. (Among those who were already smoking at the start of the study, those who divorced were no more or less likely to stop smoking than those who stayed married.)
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In summary, with just one exception, every difference in physical health favored people who stayed single (instead of getting married) and those who got divorced (instead of staying married).

To explain why women who get married get heavier, the authors reached for an explanation that has been offered in the past, although never tested: Married people regularly sit down together to share their meals, and maybe they eat larger portions because of that. The authors offered no ideas as to why the women who stayed single stayed slimmer, drank less, and had lower blood pressure than those who got married. One possibility is that single people care more about their health (and not just because they want to attract a romantic partner) and that they have more opportunities to pursue the health-affirming lifestyle they value.

The authors wondered whether the weight loss shown by women who got divorced could have been a result of stress and emotional upheaval, rather than any deliberate attempts to live a healthier life. They measured the women’s emotional well-being, social functioning, and levels of depression, but when they took those factors into account in their analyses, nothing changed. The improvements in health apparently were not just a happy accident of feeling miserable. Instead, the authors suggested, these women, who exercised more and ate better, “were actively engaged in improving their health.”

This study included only older women. But social scientists who reviewed 20 other articles on marital transitions and health–articles describing studies that included men and women of all ages–found the same thing: “Overall, transitions into marriage were associated with weight gain, whereas transitions out of marriage were associated with weight loss.”

Marriage researchers who have claimed that getting married makes people healthier have suggested various explanations for their expected results. For example, spouses supposedly monitor each other’s behavior to make sure they eat healthy, exercise, and avoid risky behavior such as drinking or taking drugs. Researchers also point to the affection and social support spouses offer each other, and suggest that such “there for you” qualities of marriage should also result in greater health among those who get married, and worse health for those who get divorced. But in this study, and in the 20 articles reviewed previously, as well as in other research described in Singled Out and Marriage vs. Single Life, that’s just not what is happening. Social scientists need to turn their attention to a question that—with few exceptions—they have ignored: Why is it that single people are doing so well?

References

DePaulo, B. (2006). Singled out: How singles are stereotyped, stigmatized, and ignored, and still live happily ever after. New York: St. Martin’s Press.

DePaulo, B. (2015b). Marriage vs. single life: How science and the media got it so wrong.

Dinour, L., Leung, M. M., Tripicchio, G., Khan, S., & Yeh, M.-C. (2012). The association between marital transitions, body mass index, and weight: A review of the literature. Journal of Obesity, article ID 294974.


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Jonathan Cooper
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All of a sudden, everyone's going to be saying that marriage is PROVEN to be bad. Of course, it's the social environment, people! And don't blame me! Don't drown me in a river, damn it! It's your laws that are the problem.