Also... to CULTIVATE something / someone... means you shape it / them to how it suits you, for your own benefit. There is much hidden secrets in terminology used, people just never paid attention to any of it... I would know... I never thought about all these things till few years ago... I was just never that badly brainwashed as I never followed any religion or culture.. I was always outside the "norm" and "standard / herd mentality thinking".