I get the idea (Huawei's founder was just now talking about) that hardship builds character. Heroes. Etc. But I already went to less than zero and did live under bridge. Do NOT steal my money or woman. I've NEVER had a woman. If I get one, I'm not going to let you steal her! I'll kill you! (Is that the right thing to say, dear? Ha, yes, I'm the man.)
Actually, I'd ask questions afterward, probably. I wouldn't kill her. I'd just divorce.