Unfortunately, we tend to blame other people for our suffering. Everything we get from life is caused by us, not by someone else. Usually people see the causes of all the troubles and troubles in others, without even trying to look at themselves from the outside. But everything that we carry into the world comes back to us from the world. All our impulses, thoughts, and desires are manifested by some external events or internal experiences.
It requires the courage to take full responsibility for your future. Only by improving your consciousness and thinking can you clearly see your responsibility not only for words, actions, but also for thoughts, desires, and motivations.
When a person sees the causes of trouble and suffering in himself and is aware of them, he tries to change his attitude to the world around him and the unpleasant situations that come. It is easier for them to ask for forgiveness or apologize to someone without being afraid to look "wrong" or funny in the eyes of other people.
For a person who lives according to conscience, in harmony with himself, purity of motives, unselfish attitude to people are important, regardless of what they think, say and how they look in their eyes. Sincerity in front of himself is his main criterion.