please,
define what you mean by the word "respect"
thank you
I mean respect in the sense of obedience, not as in an admiration or condoning. Obedience would probably be a better word, common usage to say respect when meaning obedience.
"Obedience" earns zero respect. "Respect" as a replacement for obey/comply/submit/etc is an old linguistic sham used by thugs to justify situational authority. 1/2 see the link->
Nothing wrong with that, patience is a good virtue to develop, sometimes transactions fail here and I fail to notice it, so I asked in case something got lost in the tubes.
I agree with your basic premise that "respect for authority" is a poor linguistic frame to describe submitting to an authority because of the general willingness and eagerness to obey.
Now we need to understand what the term "Authority" means. If it is some inflated twat with a penis, badge, gun and an attitude we can just stop right here.
When I follow the orders of an unprofessional and ill behaved police officer, I do it out of a combination of self interest, social norms and a general respect for the rule of law.
Self-preservation is usually front and center in such encounters. That is no longer compliance with authoritarianism but simply the bad end of a fight or flight scenario.
But not because the police officer has earned my respect or because I wish or enjoy to submit to the police officer, and I am unwilling to give up rights to increase polices authority.