Not failed dude but lives in crisis, you never know what's going to happen tomorrow, and it could be something that can change your life drastically, I will tell you a story....
A friend I've known for a few years now and he's come to be a very close friend told me a story about how your life can change in a instant. Back when he was 17 he got attacked in the
Street at 2am by a couple drunk guys. He was just walking home from a club minding his own business. Where it took place was by some shops being renovated covered with scaffolding
More instinctively than thinking about it he picked up a short length that had been left against the wall and smacked one of them around the head with it.
That was the last time that guy ever stood on his own 2 feet, or talked or did anything. My friend spent a bit of time in a young offenders then full prison untill his mid 20's.