Yeah, it makes more sense if you think of it as sports. People generally want unfair refs in their favor, most argument and comments can be boiled down to: BOOO! YAAAY! My team rules!
yeah I get it. people want every system slanted in their favor. its just unfortunate.
We are built that way, wanting unfair advantages for our self, why also wanting fairness (in other cases than our own). So it is a sort of tension there.