We need to resist our desire for 'moderation' and make it completely impossible to do at all.
There is no thing in the middle. Either we moderate or not. Moderation results in dictatorship - it has until now. It has failed every time, we tried it.
Part of the problem is the barriers to entry and the size of a community, etiquette and norms (self governance) goes out the window once the size of any community becomes large enough.