It's really simple. We are a generation of broken people, with no drive to repair ourselves so that we are suitable for others. That is the escapism that technology provides.
Just 50 years ago if a guy couldn't find a girl his only "release" was pictures in magazines that were often scrutinized and difficult to obtain, or his own mind of course..
Now in 2019 we have gone so far as Virtual Reality, that's just one sensation away from having a pornstar in your room ON DEMAND. 100% sexual availability.