As long as other miners feel that the benefit to be gained by the re-org (e.g. increased proof-of-work, significant fraudulent activity eliminated etc) isn't harming ...
...but *helping* the network --- they might support the re-org instead of considering it an attack.
However, ...
... other miners are under no obligation to support any type of re-org.
Under normal operating circumstances, it inconveniences users - at worst it's an attack (see the whitepaper).
Merchants will be inconvenienced when their payments get reversed.
Absolutely - I group everyone that's not a miner under 'users' above, as in 'users of the blockchain'.
End of this little monologue - thanks for reading this far!
