There is only -one- variable at any given moment:
Did you harm someone or not ?
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If so, is there any way to restitute to forgiveness (retroactive permission) from the victim ?
But sometimes you harm inadvertently without knowing. How to explain such phenomenon?
More than sometimes - We all do this occasionally. None will ever be omniscient or faultless. The answer is learning to know how to avoid Harm and to restitute. And to forgive...